Contributed by
Morag Black (Rogers)
Born 1950

Elise & Morag Rogers
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Okay, here I go.
My dad was born in the Borders because his mum's family was from
there. She married a Lincolnshire man from Grimsby. She'd had
five girls then lost a boy baby to the then necessary in
England, but not in Scotland, smallpox vaccine, so when she got
pregnant again, she went to her family, in Scotland and had the
boy, my father, Arthur, a lovely man.
Mum, Elizabeth
Quinn, born and bred in Ayrshire, met dad when he was stationed
nearby in ww11, he was RN and I think there was some anxiety
going on with the ICI being a potential target. Apparently she
decided he was hers right then. After they married, St. John's,
Stevenston, 1947, they went to England. My dad's brother in
law owned a trawler and dad had worked since age 14 on board, so
I think he felt with the post war employment problems at least
he'd have a guaranteed job. When my sister, Elise, reached
school age, we returned to Stevenston, my mum wanting us to have
'a good, Scottish, education'.
My earliest
memory is when we lived in Cleethorpes and there was a flood -
I was maybe 2 , 21/2, I remember sitting on the stairs and mum
and dad trying to get the water out and mum shooing me back up
the stairs every so often - yes, Elise was the good girl,
stayed put, I wanted to get into the thick of things! In
retrospect, I'm glad I was shooed away. I believe there were
many animals drowned and floating down the streets. Another
anecdote from that time that I kind of remember , Elise and I
went across the street to a sweetie shop to buy something
called kaylie, sp?? which was a flavoured sugar. They'd give
you a scoop in a poke and you'd lick your finger dip it in and
sook it. We crossed the street to go back home and a big burly
polis comes up and starts in on us, especially Elise as she
was older, because, according to him, we didn't look both ways
before crossing. When Elise began to fret I apparently told
him to 'leave her alone, you big bully!'. He walked us to the
door and told my mum what I 'd said : ( Never lived it down.
My first memory of
Stevenston was being bored, Elise was at school, we lived with my
grandparents, John and Elizabeth Quinn, on Glencairn st, and mum
worked for Robertsons the butcher / hamcurer in Windmill St,
Saltcoats. Gran gave me a sheet of newspaper and scissors to keep
me occupied. She came in from the kitchen to find me, head buried,
in the corner of the couch. I wouldn't respond to her queries so
she thought I'd stabbed myself or worse! I remember her
entreaties, wean, whit's wrang, oh my God, whit huv ye done??'
When she managed to pull my head out from the cushions she found
I'd cut my hair at the forehead. She was so relieved that instead
of a thrashing she, and, eventually when I realised I was not on
the endangered list, I, had a good laugh! Wait 'till yer mither
gets hame -but she found it funny too..maybe the fact that I had
no front teeth and newly spiky hair helped? The only people who'd
be seen with me in public for a while were my aunt Theresa and her
boyfriend, Eric Nothcote. They took me all kinds of places, they
weren't abashed at all (hey, she's not our kid)!
Then I
was flower girl at my aunt Theresa's wedding. I was four
about, maybe 3 +, apparently the entire family was on
tenterhooks that I'd gum the whole thing up...tread on the
brides veil, pull out a pea shooter....but I behaved
impeccably, much to their general relief (and surprise). Where
did I get that bad rep?
Second memory
said aunt and husband (still residing in the 3 towns, though
unfortunately aunt Theresa has passed away), had moved to Hong
Kong and sent Elise and me lovely wee Chinese jackets.We were
in Pop's and some complete unknown girl snarled at us 'yoose
think yer that speshul wi yer fancy jaikets an a' but yer no;'
totally out of the blue! No idea who she was but apparently
she knew us and had a grudge? If you are reading this W.T.F??
It probably didn't help that we had English accents.
School was fun at
least at St. John's, and I was reasonably good at it. I remember
walking there in the dark and walking home in the dark and it
never being really light all day in winter. I remember my hands
being so cold after playtime that washing them in cold water
burned, and hoping to get out in the first three or four in
line to get the milk bottles that had frozen to an 'ice lolly',
the once a year sale of tablet and toffee apples the seasonal
pastimes, skipping, scraps, eeleevo, British bulldog, tig..All
off the teachers were kind or at least fair, bar Ms. Kelly. In
retrospect I think she had health issues but lordy she made us
hate school. A funny aspect of that and maybe to do with her
problems, she gave us sanitary napkins cut into thirds as pen
wipers, (yes, we actually had inkwells that were topped up with
water rather than ink regularly.) We, well I, at least had no
clue what they were but we always felt special if we got one
with a handle.

On the Queen Mary at Long Beach
California having a wee 3Ts reunion 2001.
Our Morag, Alistair Mann and Martin Murphy - All originally from
Stevenston.
I also remember
being very in touch with nature, recognising the Ash tree with
it's black buds, the sycamores, chestnuts, beeches, rowans etc,
taking frog spawn and putting it in a big jar and when they
became frogs putting them in the bath! I loved the rec, usually
our route to school, you could name the seasons by it, the
bright green bold new grass that summoned spring, the different
birdsong. I was lucky to have an understanding grampa as I was
always trailing something home. One time a wee lintie, no idea
how it died but I cradled it to my bosom - if you have one at
that age - thinking grandpa could maybe fix it. We buried it in
solemn ceremony..rabbits, sammy the crow..plants. People living
on Hillcrest dr often dumped garden waste over the rec wall,
scavenger me and my pals would rummage through and take
'perfectly good' specimens, usually for school but one time I
took a sprig of holly home to said grandpa, as usual he humoured
me and planted it. It flourished into a large bush...wonder if
it's still there? Front garden, 14 Glencairn St. local photogs!
Enough for now
- as I said my husband used to say of me, 'ask Morag the time
and she'll tell you how to make a watch'.
Morag Black - California USA |
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